jafyk
Master Don Juan
I came across this video http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/video/polyamory-end-marriage-21013545 and it got me thinking that this is what most of you guys on sosuave want. Am I wrong? If so, why?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Isn't the poly-amorous life what you guys crave?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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The amorous life I crave is something sane and balanced, Im fine staying in a long term with a girl as long as its everything at my terms and in return Im gonna take care of her and not cheat.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.