jafyk
Master Don Juan
I came across this video http://abcnews.go.com/Nightline/video/polyamory-end-marriage-21013545 and it got me thinking that this is what most of you guys on sosuave want. Am I wrong? If so, why?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Isn't the poly-amorous life what you guys crave?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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The amorous life I crave is something sane and balanced, Im fine staying in a long term with a girl as long as its everything at my terms and in return Im gonna take care of her and not cheat.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.
Given this circumstances unable to be fulfilled I would simply opt for a hassle free dating life with many girls which are fine in being in a fvck buddy relationship, no lies no mind games no bvllsh1t.
Its totally pointless to have a second class relationship where you are not exclusive, it would be like subscribe to cable tv but still have to see plenty of commercials and pay minimum fees.