"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is using a wingwoman a good idea?

DrPhysique

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I have this friend and she knows I started being knowledgeable about dating. She's a solid 8, I'd say. Should I ask her if she'd want to come with me and be a wingwoman? Would she be better than a wingman or does it depend a lot on the situation?
 
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Very good idea, unless she is a ****block.
 

DrPhysique

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PapiChulo said:
Very good idea, unless she is a ****block.
Well, we almost started dating at one point, but then we decided that we're much better as friends. She's also sort of with another guy right now.

She actually gave me two tips today, stock up my fridge with drinks and get a jacuzzi when I get my very own apartment. haha
 
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