"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is using a wingwoman a good idea?

DrPhysique

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I have this friend and she knows I started being knowledgeable about dating. She's a solid 8, I'd say. Should I ask her if she'd want to come with me and be a wingwoman? Would she be better than a wingman or does it depend a lot on the situation?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Canada, eh?
Very good idea, unless she is a ****block.
 

DrPhysique

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PapiChulo said:
Very good idea, unless she is a ****block.
Well, we almost started dating at one point, but then we decided that we're much better as friends. She's also sort of with another guy right now.

She actually gave me two tips today, stock up my fridge with drinks and get a jacuzzi when I get my very own apartment. haha
 
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