"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Is using a wingwoman a good idea?

DrPhysique

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I have this friend and she knows I started being knowledgeable about dating. She's a solid 8, I'd say. Should I ask her if she'd want to come with me and be a wingwoman? Would she be better than a wingman or does it depend a lot on the situation?
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PapiChulo

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Canada, eh?
Very good idea, unless she is a ****block.
 

DrPhysique

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PapiChulo said:
Very good idea, unless she is a ****block.
Well, we almost started dating at one point, but then we decided that we're much better as friends. She's also sort of with another guy right now.

She actually gave me two tips today, stock up my fridge with drinks and get a jacuzzi when I get my very own apartment. haha
 
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