Is too much sex a thing? Or is it just me?

[lizardking82]

I am having sex with 3 different girls right now, will have sex with the fourth one in a matter of days and there is a fifth, hot as **** one on the horizon, too. These women are somewhat "draining" me. You guys ever been at this point before?

 

[Epicurus]

Yes, currently at that point. Anytime I have sex with a girl more than 3 times the novelty wears off.

You begin to realize sex is just another thing. Nothing close to happiness. Much more fulfilling things in my life than sex

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Only in the sense that male orgasms are stronger than female orgasms (contrary to what mainstream media says). I don’t know about you, but I just feel tired after I climax. Granted, I could jolt myself back up if I really wanted to, and I always do, but like I still feel weird afterwards. I think it’s just from having an orgasm.

 

[Reykhel]

These women are somewhat "draining" me.

Draining you sexually? I don't see how that could be unless 1. You are spending way too much time with them 2. You have a low libido 3. The sex is dull

How often are you seeing them?

Let's say you are seeing each one of them once per week. So you are fvcking three girls, three nights per week and you are free to do your own thing four nights per week. This would be just like having a ltr that you see and fvck three times per week...

I don't see the issue?

Unless what's draining you is your harem management?

You need to give more context here in order to see the full picture.

Context?

For me the "novelty" doesn't wear off that quick. In fact, I think the sex improves over time....

Are you sure this isn't just a humble brag...

 

[Reykhel]

You begin to realize sex is just another thing. Nothing close to happiness. Much more fulfilling things in my life than sex

Understand where you're coming from, but somewhat disagree. I find it's one of those times where I'm super present and everything else in life dissolves away.

 

[lizardking82]

It is not a brag, really.

Just...you cannot just "**** them once a week". There ain't no girls staying like that. You have to talk to them and handling the tests and mood changes of one woman is sometimes enough, let alone 3 or 4 or 5 LOL so no matter how centered you are, they will affect you somehow.

 

[Trump]

It is not a brag, really.

When girls say "I don't play games" it means "I play games."

When guys say "I'm having sex with 3 different hot young girls and likely a fourth in less than 48 hours, and a fifth in less than 72 hours, but its not to brag really" it means "It is to brag, really."

Just...you cannot just "**** them once a week". There ain't no girls staying like that. You have to talk to them and handling the tests and mood changes of one woman is sometimes enough, let alone 3 or 4 or 5 LOL so no matter how centered you are, they will affect you somehow.

Quit having sex with them, you won't have to deal with the mood changes and tests.

 

[Reykhel]

Just...you cannot just "**** them once a week"

Yes, you can. You set the frame. This is your life, your time (granted I'm guilty of staying the night etc)

There ain't no girls staying like that.

Yes, there are. My experience on spinning 3? (That you are sexual with) If I want a regular 3 spin on the long term: I can manage to "keep" two on the regular relatively "long term" seeing them once a week (granted the odd time it may bleed into more than once a week with each one of them..) HOWEVER, trying to "keep" the third position on the regular long term seems to be elusive.....the number 3 ROTATES......

You have to talk to them and handling the tests and mood changes of one woman is sometimes enough

Few WhatsApp messages here and there, bit of banter ain't no big deal. You sure you are naturally busy with your own life? Tests and mood changes? Who's spinning who? Give us some context

4 or 5 LOL

Don't know how anyone has the time for that on a weekly basis?

Perhaps your issue is management and frame?

Give us some context how is a regular week with your plates, work, social life, gym?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Prove they're hot.

 

[lizardking82]

@Reykhel

1) I did not say I have to have sex with them more than once a week. I have sex with them when I am on the mood and when they are in the mood.

2) Unless I like the person, too, this kinda sex can keep me interested for about 3-4 months and then it fades away.

3) I am naturally busy with my life, but there are times when I am less busy and in those times, part of it, I talk to the girls. Most of the time it is OK and fun, sometimes it is not, I guess that's just how things roll. None is spinning me, that's for sure LOL

Regular week is mixed, some weeks I am full busy with work, walking and cycling, having work meetings and working 5/6 days a week and I only have time to meet the girls for a drink, maybe sex with one of them; other weeks I am more free schedule wise and I work from home and have got to meet each of them at least once a week and have sex with at least two of them. It's not regular since I don't have a fixed job.

Training wise I cycle through the city all the time so on a usual day, even without training, I do about 10 km of cycling. 3 times a week I cycle about 20 km on top of the usual 10 I do throughout the day.

 

[marmel75]

I am having sex with 3 different girls right now, will have sex with the fourth one in a matter of days and there is a fifth, hot as **** one on the horizon, too. These women are somewhat "draining" me. You guys ever been at this point before?

Yes I had 7 plates at one time for about a month and banged them in a roughly 10 day to 2 week rotation until my d!ck was literally sore all day and hurt when I peed everytime. Partially because I didn't just do the roll over and go to sleep thing after the first time...no it was like 3 or 4 times every time...

It was draining on me both physically and mentally and I ended up whittling them down to 5 then 3...3 was a good number for me...I could bang them each once a week and go all out and be OK...

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Yes I had 7 plates at one time for about a month and banged them in a roughly 10 day to 2 week rotation until my d!ck was literally sore all day and hurt when I peed everytime. Partially because I didn't just do the roll over and go to sleep thing after the first time...no it was like 3 or 4 times every time...

It was draining on me both physically and mentally and I ended up whittling them down to 5 then 3...3 was a good number for me...I could bang them each once a week and go all out and be OK...

I think if I fvcked a girl once, she'd want to fvck me again. But can't figure out how to do it the first time for free. And if they don't want money, they want monogamy, which is even worse.

 

[Roober]

Yes, currently at that point. Anytime I have sex with a girl more than 3 times the novelty wears off.

You begin to realize sex is just another thing. Nothing close to happiness. Much more fulfilling things in my life than sex

Probably describes my feeling about meaningless sex with multiple women on rotation. Some members in the non-LTR camp don't seem to understand this concept. It begins to feel pointless, and for me, it occured rather quickly. I couldn't even perform...

I would compare it to a job. Let's say you are making 200k a year, have the best fringe benefits, but absolutely hate your work. You are going to be left feeling much more empty and depressed than if you made 40k a year doing a job you love working with people you adore. Money or sex cannot be substituted for true happiness. The voids that people have in their lives will never be filled with money, sex, power, or drugs. Those can be compared to taking an Advil for a headache. The pain did not go away, you just cannot feel it any more. Often times, people go their whole lives without figuring this out...

 

[marmel75]

Probably describes my feeling about meaningless sex with multiple women on rotation. Some members in the non-LTR camp don't seem to understand this concept. It begins to feel pointless, and for me, it occured rather quickly. I couldn't even perform...

I would compare it to a job. Let's say you are making 200k a year, have the best fringe benefits, but absolutely hate your work. You are going to be left feeling much more empty and depressed than if you made 40k a year doing a job you love working with people you adore. Money or sex cannot be substituted for true happiness. The voids that people have in their lives will never be filled with money, sex, power, or drugs. Those can be compared to taking an Advil for a headache. The pain did not go away, you just cannot feel it any more. Often times, people go their whole lives without figuring this out...

Nah...I never have issues performing...I'm trying to tear that pvssy to shreds at all times and see how long I can make her continuously squirt and go into full body convulsions from orgasms...it never gets old to watch their eyes roll back in their heads and see them uncontrollably shaking as you snicker...

 

[Desdinova]

I only get that when my d1ck starts to get friction burns

 

[RichardTheFrog]

But does anyone on here have that much sex with HOT girls?

95% of the guys I've known who had so many girls had low standards of looks.

 

[17 shots]

Dont orgasm when u smash them. Just enjoy the adrenaline rush from the Testosterone spikes. Just bathe in it bro... then jerk off like 2 times a month

 

[PeasantPlayer]

I think sex is overrated

 

[user43770]

I find it's one of those times where I'm super present and everything else in life dissolves away.

Sometimes. Other times I find myself mid-coitus, thinking about the absurdity of it all. Two people desperately seeking a momentary escape from reality, huffing and puffing like our lives' depend on it.

It's all a fvcking joke, man. Momentary bouts of happiness, followed by bouts of boredom and longing.

 

[Dash Riprock]

I am having sex with 3 different girls right now, will have sex with the fourth one in a matter of days and there is a fifth, hot as **** one on the horizon, too. These women are somewhat "draining" me. You guys ever been at this point before?

It happens to me too when the sex is meaningless. Yes, it's REALLY HARD to find a good chick to hang with. But, when I do, the sex doesn't seem to get boring--until a few months or in some cases years into the relationship which is normal.

I think the remedy to this is to back off on the plates or throw them a curve and hang out without having or pushing for sex. The way of the DJ is that sex is NEVER the driving force.

Good luck.