"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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is this true about guys?

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udontknowme

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Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ER!C L!VE

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He's thinks he has a chance because you still talk with him. He's not looking for a friend. He thinks he can turn you into his girlfriend or will get to have sex with you in the future.

Stop talking with him and eventually he'll get the hint. Age and inexperience on his part probably plays a big role in your situation. Most inexperienced younger guys have no clue when a girl isn't interested - especially when she still talks to him.
 
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Boner da Stoner

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call him a bitoch! insult him whenver you think you should, laugh at him, make him realize he's not giving you enoiuh money yet!!!
 
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Originally posted by udontknowme
Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
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Tell him to join the board, we`ll straighten him out.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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He's your puppy, and like said previously he thinks he still has a chance with you. However, in all logic, you don't feel anything for this guy (especially since he's always in your face).

Tell him to come here, he'll see the light.
Peace.

-Bill
 
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This guy is pathetic. Pathetic like OJ simpson attempting to sing gospel as an appeal to get into heaven!

Send that tenderfoot guy over here.

The guy doesn't want to be friends.
Just give him a fortune cookie with this website address in it.
 
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Originally posted by udontknowme
Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
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u type too much.. lol
we need some information about you.. preferrably your likes, dislikes, a photo profile..
After that we'll be able to throughly answer your question to its fullest potentency.. :)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I just have one question. Why is it that everytime you have girl problems, you come here? Do we look like your girlfriends to you? Or are you just so into us that you keep asking for our attention by posting your problems?
 
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