"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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is this true about guys?

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Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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ER!C L!VE

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He's thinks he has a chance because you still talk with him. He's not looking for a friend. He thinks he can turn you into his girlfriend or will get to have sex with you in the future.

Stop talking with him and eventually he'll get the hint. Age and inexperience on his part probably plays a big role in your situation. Most inexperienced younger guys have no clue when a girl isn't interested - especially when she still talks to him.
 
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call him a bitoch! insult him whenver you think you should, laugh at him, make him realize he's not giving you enoiuh money yet!!!
 
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Originally posted by udontknowme
Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
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Tell him to join the board, we`ll straighten him out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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He's your puppy, and like said previously he thinks he still has a chance with you. However, in all logic, you don't feel anything for this guy (especially since he's always in your face).

Tell him to come here, he'll see the light.
Peace.

-Bill
 
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This guy is pathetic. Pathetic like OJ simpson attempting to sing gospel as an appeal to get into heaven!

Send that tenderfoot guy over here.

The guy doesn't want to be friends.
Just give him a fortune cookie with this website address in it.
 
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Originally posted by udontknowme
Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
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u type too much.. lol
we need some information about you.. preferrably your likes, dislikes, a photo profile..
After that we'll be able to throughly answer your question to its fullest potentency.. :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I just have one question. Why is it that everytime you have girl problems, you come here? Do we look like your girlfriends to you? Or are you just so into us that you keep asking for our attention by posting your problems?
 
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