“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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udontknowme

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Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ER!C L!VE

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He's thinks he has a chance because you still talk with him. He's not looking for a friend. He thinks he can turn you into his girlfriend or will get to have sex with you in the future.

Stop talking with him and eventually he'll get the hint. Age and inexperience on his part probably plays a big role in your situation. Most inexperienced younger guys have no clue when a girl isn't interested - especially when she still talks to him.
 

Boner da Stoner

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call him a bitoch! insult him whenver you think you should, laugh at him, make him realize he's not giving you enoiuh money yet!!!
 

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Originally posted by udontknowme
Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
Tell him to join the board, we`ll straighten him out.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Bill

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He's your puppy, and like said previously he thinks he still has a chance with you. However, in all logic, you don't feel anything for this guy (especially since he's always in your face).

Tell him to come here, he'll see the light.
Peace.

-Bill
 

DJ4Real

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This guy is pathetic. Pathetic like OJ simpson attempting to sing gospel as an appeal to get into heaven!

Send that tenderfoot guy over here.

The guy doesn't want to be friends.
Just give him a fortune cookie with this website address in it.
 

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Originally posted by udontknowme
Is it true that if a girl tells a guy that she thinks there isnt a connection after they go out, and the guy says he still wants to be friends, that the guy still kinda likes the girl?
I think this guy still likes me, lol, even after i told him i wasnt really interested. He always talks to me online, makes sexual jokes sometimes, used to text me alot, calls sometimes ( i have never called him once), leaves voice mails, and then he got mad when i didnt return his calls and told me he wasnt gunna call anymore, and still did, lol, he made up a nick name for me, i know - gay- lol, keeps asking me to hang out, or when we're gunna hang out, etc, etc. It is obvious that he still wants to keep in contact with me.
But do u think he wants to be friends or more? Like i said before, do guys normally want to remain friends after they hear the news that the girl isnt really interested??
u type too much.. lol
we need some information about you.. preferrably your likes, dislikes, a photo profile..
After that we'll be able to throughly answer your question to its fullest potentency.. :)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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thederekeffect1

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I just have one question. Why is it that everytime you have girl problems, you come here? Do we look like your girlfriends to you? Or are you just so into us that you keep asking for our attention by posting your problems?
 
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