Also, any improvement tips would be appreciated. And religion is one thing I can't skimp on...I'm entering ministry as a career in a few years, so the 'fun' is over, and I can date all I want, but f-closes are off limits until marriage.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is this too jaded for an online personal ad?
- Thread starter DCC
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Did not like this part at all. No need to verbalize that you are nice or that you are not a doormat. Just let the profile speak that for itself.DCC said:
Also, instead of saying "I am this" and "I am that", let your personality show in other ways besides outright saying attributes about yourself. Just an opinion though.
Id like to hear what you and others think?
iqqi
Master Don Juan
I think it was ok.
Not bad. I might work on the "I am a nice guy" wording a little bit, to make it a little bit funnier and less like you are a damaged reformed nice guy, lol!
Not bad. I might work on the "I am a nice guy" wording a little bit, to make it a little bit funnier and less like you are a damaged reformed nice guy, lol!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
It sounds a like a list of generic qualities, plus I think you're revealing way too much about yourself. You need to retain an element of mystery.
As it stands, I also think you appear like you're seeking approval. I would suggest taking the position of the selector and talk more about what you are looking for in a woman and maybe even what traits you don't like to see. The final paragraph is perfect, but maybe you can expand on it a bit more.
As it stands, I also think you appear like you're seeking approval. I would suggest taking the position of the selector and talk more about what you are looking for in a woman and maybe even what traits you don't like to see. The final paragraph is perfect, but maybe you can expand on it a bit more.
I think the other problem with this profile is that it doesn't really say anything about you, I get no sense of what you are into or what your style is
To be fair, this is the main problem with dating profiles in general , they are mostly really quite bland and generic. Girls profiles are actually usually worse than dudes in this regard also. Very very few profiles are interesting, never mind irreverent, witty, effusive or individual in any way
To be fair, this is the main problem with dating profiles in general , they are mostly really quite bland and generic. Girls profiles are actually usually worse than dudes in this regard also. Very very few profiles are interesting, never mind irreverent, witty, effusive or individual in any way