"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this the right time?

FickleBeast

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So there's this girl who's LGBFed me a few weeks back, and I immediately gave her the NC treatment, hoping to salvage a relationship. So far so good: she's been trying to chat me up whenever we bump into each other at school, and I reckon I've maintained just the right amount of interaction .... So today I decided to take the plunge and go talk to her during lunch break, and guess what: she tells me her grandmother just died. Which explains her weird behaviour these few days, totally cutting herself off from the outside world.

What should I do? Should I comfort/console her (AFC-like)? Or should I let this thing pass before trying any further?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Thanks for the reply. Yeah I'm probably more torn than I should be because she used to be my oneitis ;) Moving on!
 
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