"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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So there's this girl who's LGBFed me a few weeks back, and I immediately gave her the NC treatment, hoping to salvage a relationship. So far so good: she's been trying to chat me up whenever we bump into each other at school, and I reckon I've maintained just the right amount of interaction .... So today I decided to take the plunge and go talk to her during lunch break, and guess what: she tells me her grandmother just died. Which explains her weird behaviour these few days, totally cutting herself off from the outside world.

What should I do? Should I comfort/console her (AFC-like)? Or should I let this thing pass before trying any further?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thanks for the reply. Yeah I'm probably more torn than I should be because she used to be my oneitis ;) Moving on!
 
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