"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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So there's this girl who's LGBFed me a few weeks back, and I immediately gave her the NC treatment, hoping to salvage a relationship. So far so good: she's been trying to chat me up whenever we bump into each other at school, and I reckon I've maintained just the right amount of interaction .... So today I decided to take the plunge and go talk to her during lunch break, and guess what: she tells me her grandmother just died. Which explains her weird behaviour these few days, totally cutting herself off from the outside world.

What should I do? Should I comfort/console her (AFC-like)? Or should I let this thing pass before trying any further?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Thanks for the reply. Yeah I'm probably more torn than I should be because she used to be my oneitis ;) Moving on!
 
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