Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Ya been a few times. Ex is from NYC. In the South, places like Texas and Tennessee, the accent really stands out. It gets your foot in the door alright, but you're right, if you don't escalate the accent is quickly forgotten.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Yep just keep the texts simple and don't try to overcompensate, that's it.
Simple text sent, immediate reply saying she'll meet me Monday.
Ya, thats the core of it, psychological inhibitions with this girl. I got you, I'll escalate no matter what. Thanks for the top top advice, these forums are great.
The best advice from what I have read so far on this thread.
I do feel you . Covid19 made me lost almost all of plates and made me plateless for the first time since years. I don’t like it either cause i was really into one of the plates and the current situation made it all worse . The only thing you can do is just look after yourself till this thing is over . There is not much you can do .
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I agree with all of that but too late, the die is cast, I've crossed the Rubicon, she replied and meeting her next Monday. I've nowhere to bring her except the back seat of the car. At least I've a big roomy car.
Haha plates as in spinning plates? I like that metaphor.
Hope do - the pubs here do live up to their reputation.
By the way, just to give further context, on the third date I got her home to my house for a couple of hours, but she wouldn't stay over. It was a close call though. 2 days later Ireland went into this hard lockdown and my housemates banned all visitors. I've haven't been *****footing about the whole time - only since the lockdown cos I've basically given up on having sex with no place to do it.
Yes . It’s just a phrase people usually use around here mostly to describe the women they fck or they about to fck . You’ll see it often.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
I'll remember that one. Ironically, the only one keeping any plates spinning is the guy who architected the lockdown
What I'm advising isn't aggressive at all. Your actions should be effortless, or at least appear to be. That's what she wants, a man to conquer her in his sleep. It only sounds aggressive to you because it's so against your passive nature.
The dragon line is great.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Attaboy...
I'm glad you didn't fall for the "I'm on my period" line whether it was an excuse or not.
So where did you end up doing it then?She was on her period alright, found that out. In the carI'm glad you didn't fall for the "I'm on my period" line whether it was an excuse or not.
So she wasn't a liar in that instance. You chose a different tunnel?She was on her period alright, found that out. In the car
Nope just went for it, she's a 10, it helps.
If you currently have too many women chasing you, calling you, harassing you, knocking on your door at 2 o'clock in the morning... then I have the simple solution for you.
Just read my free ebook 22 Rules for Massive Success With Women and do the opposite of what I recommend.
This will quickly drive all women away from you.
And you will be able to relax and to live your life in peace and quiet.