Josh Davidson
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If I am only interested in women for sex, shouldn't I dump them if they don't put out within six dates?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is this reasonable? (See below)
- Thread starter Josh Davidson
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
manfrombelow
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If they don't bang you within six dates, it means you're the one that gets dumped, buddy, not vice versa.
Josh, please stop asking these kinds of questions, unless they are for a real "case" or "date" that you're having right now.
Josh, please stop asking these kinds of questions, unless they are for a real "case" or "date" that you're having right now.
bat soup
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That's 5 dates too many. Are you going to give every woman you meet 6 free meals before she decides whether she's interested?
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No offense but from where you are starting you should simply be working on trying to get a woman to meet up with you.
Learn to crawl before you walk and run and sprint.
You have much to learn Young Grasshopper.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.