Josh Davidson
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If I am only interested in women for sex, shouldn't I dump them if they don't put out within six dates?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Is this reasonable? (See below)
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
manfrombelow
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If they don't bang you within six dates, it means you're the one that gets dumped, buddy, not vice versa.
Josh, please stop asking these kinds of questions, unless they are for a real "case" or "date" that you're having right now.
Josh, please stop asking these kinds of questions, unless they are for a real "case" or "date" that you're having right now.
bat soup
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That's 5 dates too many. Are you going to give every woman you meet 6 free meals before she decides whether she's interested?
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No offense but from where you are starting you should simply be working on trying to get a woman to meet up with you.
Learn to crawl before you walk and run and sprint.
You have much to learn Young Grasshopper.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.