"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Is this push and pull?

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I have just heard this saying a bit and am wondering if push / pull is giving the girl mixed responses: "i would so do you" , "eww, can we not go, i dont want to be seen with you"

Is that what it is? If not, what is this?

My friends sisters friend (of which we all hang out with quite a bit) became the victim of me doing this :p.

It started off in New Years. ALL of my conversation with her is centred around this theory. I mean, we have great conversation but I will always drop something in there to toy with her mind.

This girl is stunning by the way, and I'm probably slighty above average. I see her in town last night and what does she do? Runs at me and tounges me down right there. No hello or nothing. :up:

She isn't the only prospect lately, but it has been a prime example for this theory.

So what is it? My jargon might not be up to scratch.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Macgyver

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There's a high school forum for this, why don't you go there.
 

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You answer your own question. Goddamn it, people should really consider posting "My example of x", as compared to "Is this x"
 

Distant Light

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Yes you have the idea of push/pull. mixed signals of interest and then disinterest. Or IOIs and then IODs. I can see why she would have ran and tongue you down. Push/Pull I always do throughout the whole approach.
 
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