"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Is this push and pull?

jessup

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I have just heard this saying a bit and am wondering if push / pull is giving the girl mixed responses: "i would so do you" , "eww, can we not go, i dont want to be seen with you"

Is that what it is? If not, what is this?

My friends sisters friend (of which we all hang out with quite a bit) became the victim of me doing this :p.

It started off in New Years. ALL of my conversation with her is centred around this theory. I mean, we have great conversation but I will always drop something in there to toy with her mind.

This girl is stunning by the way, and I'm probably slighty above average. I see her in town last night and what does she do? Runs at me and tounges me down right there. No hello or nothing. :up:

She isn't the only prospect lately, but it has been a prime example for this theory.

So what is it? My jargon might not be up to scratch.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Macgyver

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There's a high school forum for this, why don't you go there.
 

Docs

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You answer your own question. Goddamn it, people should really consider posting "My example of x", as compared to "Is this x"
 

Distant Light

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Yes you have the idea of push/pull. mixed signals of interest and then disinterest. Or IOIs and then IODs. I can see why she would have ran and tongue you down. Push/Pull I always do throughout the whole approach.
 
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