"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this push and pull?

jessup

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I have just heard this saying a bit and am wondering if push / pull is giving the girl mixed responses: "i would so do you" , "eww, can we not go, i dont want to be seen with you"

Is that what it is? If not, what is this?

My friends sisters friend (of which we all hang out with quite a bit) became the victim of me doing this :p.

It started off in New Years. ALL of my conversation with her is centred around this theory. I mean, we have great conversation but I will always drop something in there to toy with her mind.

This girl is stunning by the way, and I'm probably slighty above average. I see her in town last night and what does she do? Runs at me and tounges me down right there. No hello or nothing. :up:

She isn't the only prospect lately, but it has been a prime example for this theory.

So what is it? My jargon might not be up to scratch.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Macgyver

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There's a high school forum for this, why don't you go there.
 

Docs

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You answer your own question. Goddamn it, people should really consider posting "My example of x", as compared to "Is this x"
 

Distant Light

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Yes you have the idea of push/pull. mixed signals of interest and then disinterest. Or IOIs and then IODs. I can see why she would have ran and tongue you down. Push/Pull I always do throughout the whole approach.
 
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