"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this push and pull?

jessup

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I have just heard this saying a bit and am wondering if push / pull is giving the girl mixed responses: "i would so do you" , "eww, can we not go, i dont want to be seen with you"

Is that what it is? If not, what is this?

My friends sisters friend (of which we all hang out with quite a bit) became the victim of me doing this :p.

It started off in New Years. ALL of my conversation with her is centred around this theory. I mean, we have great conversation but I will always drop something in there to toy with her mind.

This girl is stunning by the way, and I'm probably slighty above average. I see her in town last night and what does she do? Runs at me and tounges me down right there. No hello or nothing. :up:

She isn't the only prospect lately, but it has been a prime example for this theory.

So what is it? My jargon might not be up to scratch.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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Macgyver

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There's a high school forum for this, why don't you go there.
 

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You answer your own question. Goddamn it, people should really consider posting "My example of x", as compared to "Is this x"
 

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Yes you have the idea of push/pull. mixed signals of interest and then disinterest. Or IOIs and then IODs. I can see why she would have ran and tongue you down. Push/Pull I always do throughout the whole approach.
 
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