What would you guys do if you were not getting any from the woman of your dreams, but you met a woman you were sexually attracted to and thought you may be able to have sex with her? If she was a single mom, not college educated, frankly not a lot in common with her, but there was sexual chemistry, and when you saw her you wanted to screw her brains out. If you thought you had a chance with this woman would you pursue it? What if someone better comes along(same sexual chemistry but more long term compatibility) while you are screwing her brains out?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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Is This Morally Okay?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
???StevenR said:What would you guys do if you were not getting any from the woman of your dreams, but you met a woman you were sexually attracted to and thought you may be able to have sex with her? If she was a single mom, not college educated, frankly not a lot in common with her, but there was sexual chemistry, and when you saw her you wanted to screw her brains out. If you thought you had a chance with this woman would you pursue it? What if someone better comes along(same sexual chemistry but more long term compatibility) while you are screwing her brains out?
okay, maybe "ethically" would have been a better term than morally. Generally I don't sleep with women unless I think there is relationship potential. However, I am not getting any because at present the kind of women I am interested in for marriage are out of my league, they generally don't write back to me on the dating site I am on probably because they think I am too fat.
I don't want to suffer with involuntary celibacy because I am horny and I want sex. Unfortunately the only way to get it right now is with women I know I would not be interested in long term but I still think are hot. Kinda like I would never marry a stripper but my body still wants to have sex with her.
I don't want to suffer with involuntary celibacy because I am horny and I want sex. Unfortunately the only way to get it right now is with women I know I would not be interested in long term but I still think are hot. Kinda like I would never marry a stripper but my body still wants to have sex with her.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
dude what kind of place do you think this is?.....OF course we advocate sleeping with women who you find hot. You need to get rid of the idea that you need to only sleep with the women of your dreams. Because if you don't fuuck enough "hot wrong ones" how will you know when you find the right one. Maybe in hollywood movies you can hold off celibacy for that "oh so special dream girl" but in reality you need to think about what you want.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I suppose this is very AFC for me to admit, but I tend to get emotionally attached to women I sleep with, much like a girl does. Granted I have only slept with three women in my life total. At the same time I am horny like a guy is. It has nothing to do with society more than fear of becoming emotionally attached and falling in love with someone who may not be the best person for me. I wish I didn't get attached to the women I sleep with, then life would be so much easier.
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Thats bullsh!t talk, how can she be "the woman of your dreams" if your not getting any?StevenR said:What would you guys do if you were not getting any from the woman of your dreams?
Jesus wept, thats called the highs and lows of "life" mate, get amongst it you stalling steve. You get lucky with the right bird = Win. You get your heart ripped out = Win, yes thats right WIN. Careful not to rip her heart out though, sure its only temporary with chicks but its still a = Lose.StevenR said:It has nothing to do with society more than fear of becoming emotionally attached and falling in love with someone who may not be the best person for me. I wish I didn't get attached to the women I sleep with, then life would be so much easier.
Get busy you muppet.
"Morally or ethically ok"..Pfftt lol.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Haha this is great. It is possible to have your cake, and eat it too.Alphamale1821 said:Because if you don't fuuck enough "hot wrong ones" how will you know when you find the right one.
To the OP: it depeneds what your morals are! But sex is a basic human need, if your body is telling you that you need it, go get her. Use protection and be smart, try to get out of that relationship-only frame.
If your in a relationship that the other person thinks is exclusive, then it is morally wrong because you are breaking your word. If your not in an exclusive relationship, then go for it.
It seems as though you have already answered your own question when you admit to getting emotionally attached to women you sleep with and that this woman has nothing compatible with you except sexual chemistry.
It seems as though you have already answered your own question when you admit to getting emotionally attached to women you sleep with and that this woman has nothing compatible with you except sexual chemistry.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
mate, you're 34 and asking questions about whether it's alright to sleep with a hot woman whilst you have a crush on another hot woman?? wtf man, where have you BEEN all your life?
And what's this marriage thing all about, you probably don't even know that woman very well, you don't "consider someone for marriage" before you've even slept with them.
I don't even understand where morals or ethics come into this. You have a crush on a woman...but you're not getting any off her...so you wanna fvck someone else...where are morals or ethics even involved in this??
And what's this marriage thing all about, you probably don't even know that woman very well, you don't "consider someone for marriage" before you've even slept with them.
I don't even understand where morals or ethics come into this. You have a crush on a woman...but you're not getting any off her...so you wanna fvck someone else...where are morals or ethics even involved in this??
I'm going to have to waive the false premise flag on this one. While one can rationalize claims into a structure that is valid, it does not mean that they are sound. The distinction to be made is that some arguments use rational understanding and are false, while other use rational understanding and are true. Thus, it follows that just because an argument uses rational processes does not mean that it is true. The more popular form of argumentation is deductive, which can be disproved by having an unwarranted inference or a false premise, which is what your statement is.Alle_Gory said:Spoiler: Everything is morally okay after you it rationalize long enough.
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the woman of your dream's won't have sex with you?!
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.