What would you guys do if you were not getting any from the woman of your dreams, but you met a woman you were sexually attracted to and thought you may be able to have sex with her? If she was a single mom, not college educated, frankly not a lot in common with her, but there was sexual chemistry, and when you saw her you wanted to screw her brains out. If you thought you had a chance with this woman would you pursue it? What if someone better comes along(same sexual chemistry but more long term compatibility) while you are screwing her brains out?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Is This Morally Okay?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
???StevenR said:What would you guys do if you were not getting any from the woman of your dreams, but you met a woman you were sexually attracted to and thought you may be able to have sex with her? If she was a single mom, not college educated, frankly not a lot in common with her, but there was sexual chemistry, and when you saw her you wanted to screw her brains out. If you thought you had a chance with this woman would you pursue it? What if someone better comes along(same sexual chemistry but more long term compatibility) while you are screwing her brains out?
okay, maybe "ethically" would have been a better term than morally. Generally I don't sleep with women unless I think there is relationship potential. However, I am not getting any because at present the kind of women I am interested in for marriage are out of my league, they generally don't write back to me on the dating site I am on probably because they think I am too fat.
I don't want to suffer with involuntary celibacy because I am horny and I want sex. Unfortunately the only way to get it right now is with women I know I would not be interested in long term but I still think are hot. Kinda like I would never marry a stripper but my body still wants to have sex with her.
I don't want to suffer with involuntary celibacy because I am horny and I want sex. Unfortunately the only way to get it right now is with women I know I would not be interested in long term but I still think are hot. Kinda like I would never marry a stripper but my body still wants to have sex with her.
Alphamale1821
Senior Don Juan
dude what kind of place do you think this is?.....OF course we advocate sleeping with women who you find hot. You need to get rid of the idea that you need to only sleep with the women of your dreams. Because if you don't fuuck enough "hot wrong ones" how will you know when you find the right one. Maybe in hollywood movies you can hold off celibacy for that "oh so special dream girl" but in reality you need to think about what you want.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I suppose this is very AFC for me to admit, but I tend to get emotionally attached to women I sleep with, much like a girl does. Granted I have only slept with three women in my life total. At the same time I am horny like a guy is. It has nothing to do with society more than fear of becoming emotionally attached and falling in love with someone who may not be the best person for me. I wish I didn't get attached to the women I sleep with, then life would be so much easier.
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Thats bullsh!t talk, how can she be "the woman of your dreams" if your not getting any?StevenR said:What would you guys do if you were not getting any from the woman of your dreams?
Jesus wept, thats called the highs and lows of "life" mate, get amongst it you stalling steve. You get lucky with the right bird = Win. You get your heart ripped out = Win, yes thats right WIN. Careful not to rip her heart out though, sure its only temporary with chicks but its still a = Lose.StevenR said:It has nothing to do with society more than fear of becoming emotionally attached and falling in love with someone who may not be the best person for me. I wish I didn't get attached to the women I sleep with, then life would be so much easier.
Get busy you muppet.
"Morally or ethically ok"..Pfftt lol.
The Inside Man
Master Don Juan
Haha this is great. It is possible to have your cake, and eat it too.Alphamale1821 said:Because if you don't fuuck enough "hot wrong ones" how will you know when you find the right one.
To the OP: it depeneds what your morals are! But sex is a basic human need, if your body is telling you that you need it, go get her. Use protection and be smart, try to get out of that relationship-only frame.
If your in a relationship that the other person thinks is exclusive, then it is morally wrong because you are breaking your word. If your not in an exclusive relationship, then go for it.
It seems as though you have already answered your own question when you admit to getting emotionally attached to women you sleep with and that this woman has nothing compatible with you except sexual chemistry.
It seems as though you have already answered your own question when you admit to getting emotionally attached to women you sleep with and that this woman has nothing compatible with you except sexual chemistry.
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
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I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
mate, you're 34 and asking questions about whether it's alright to sleep with a hot woman whilst you have a crush on another hot woman?? wtf man, where have you BEEN all your life?
And what's this marriage thing all about, you probably don't even know that woman very well, you don't "consider someone for marriage" before you've even slept with them.
I don't even understand where morals or ethics come into this. You have a crush on a woman...but you're not getting any off her...so you wanna fvck someone else...where are morals or ethics even involved in this??
And what's this marriage thing all about, you probably don't even know that woman very well, you don't "consider someone for marriage" before you've even slept with them.
I don't even understand where morals or ethics come into this. You have a crush on a woman...but you're not getting any off her...so you wanna fvck someone else...where are morals or ethics even involved in this??
I'm going to have to waive the false premise flag on this one. While one can rationalize claims into a structure that is valid, it does not mean that they are sound. The distinction to be made is that some arguments use rational understanding and are false, while other use rational understanding and are true. Thus, it follows that just because an argument uses rational processes does not mean that it is true. The more popular form of argumentation is deductive, which can be disproved by having an unwarranted inference or a false premise, which is what your statement is.Alle_Gory said:Spoiler: Everything is morally okay after you it rationalize long enough.
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the woman of your dream's won't have sex with you?!
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