is this mean?

[spidersense]

alright, there is this girl that I work with. She's about an 8. She's into me, majorly... There has been a ton of kino between her and myself... the thing is that she has a kid, and I fairly recently put that on my "Denied" list. Ok... so now I keep doing it, I stopped with the kino, but I still keep up some of the C/F with her(like today there was a commercial about genital herpes on the TV and I asked if she needs to go to the doctor for some of that medacine)
MY PROBLEM IS: how do I stop the progression with her without making myself look like a wussie? I'm thinking keep it up and just tease her like crazy... that will help me keep my image and show that I have the power to tease. What do you think?

 

[DeathDealer]

do you see clint eastwood being ****y and funny all the time with his b1tches?

there's no faster way to friendszone than a guy that acts like a court jester 24/7.

 

[Jariel]

Originally posted by DeathDealer
there's no faster way to friendszone than a guy that acts like a court jester 24/7.

I agree.

 

[Kaine]

but I still keep up some of the C/F with her(like today there was a commercial about genital herpes on the TV and I asked if she needs to go to the doctor for some of that medacine)

For our not so astute readers. This is NOT ****y and Funny.

I don't quite understand your problem? What progression are you talking about. Is it hard work teasing her? If you want to stay friends then just keep doing what you are doing and not ask her out or kiss her etc.

You don't need to tease to show dominance.

 

[spidersense]

it was ****y funny the way I said it, everyone laughed

 

[Don Juanabbe]

Everyone laughed because you humiliated her.

 

[MindOverMatter]

I'm seriously amazed at how many people don't have the common sense to differentiate between C&F / neghits and insults. It's been explained so many times, and people still post threads about it, pat themselves on the back even when they totally missed the whole point.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

He may as well have just outright called her a hor.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Originally posted by Don Juanabbe
He may as well have just outright called her a hor.

A dirty filty one at that... C/F is an artform and neghits are for specific instances. They can be extremely hazardous in the wrong hands.

 

[Don Juanabbe]

You are correct, it can really backfire, neghits should especially be used sparingly, I dispense with them altogether with people whom I've already established a repor.