“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Is this is a b**ch shield?

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Hi all. I'm new to posting in the discussion forum :wave:
Um, so here goes. I started talking to a girl who is a friend of a friend about a month or so ago. Did c&f, she was cool with me, always laughed and smiled at the stuff I said etc. Got her number without hassle as well.
A week after this, she didn't wanna talk to me, was giving me the cold shoulder, wouldn't warm up to my interactions. Confused, I decided to tell her how I feel and call her on her sudden change of behaviour (on facebook. I know, I know, but she didn't wanna talk to me or accept my calls). Next thing, she says I'm rude! What?! Most of my friends who I've spoken to about this say she's crazy and I should leave her alone. Would be easy if we weren't studying the same course (Information technology).
This week (three weeks after the incident), I wish to make right with this chick. Find out where I went wrong (if I did) and just find closure. Is this a good move? Should I just leave her alone?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Called her out on Facebook as in you made a public comment about it? God I hope not...
 
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*SPHECTACULAR* said:
I wish to make right with this chick. Find out where I went wrong (if I did) and just find closure. Is this a good move?
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No, it never is.

Unfortunately when you get to this point, moving forward and NEXT is the only option available.
 
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No, it never is.

Unfortunately when you get to this point, moving forward and NEXT is the only option available.
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^This. There is no closure. Just find your nearest exit and eject.

Being that she is probably is crazy, any attempt to make things right (despite your good intentions) will be seen (by her) as creepy, stalking, and harrassing.

Even if she isn't crazy, she will still likely view any attempt to make things right in a negative light as listed above.

Just let it go.

To answers your title question, no it's not a b*tch shield. B*tch shields are usually limited to when you first approach a girl (or group of girls) that you haven't met before.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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No point leaving her alone you have NOTHING to lose. She's definitely crazy, I mean come on, a girl taking IT? Got to be a psycho lol!

You may as well just ask her why she suddenly went cold on you for no reason. Really what do you have to lose? If you just leave her alone you'll never hear from her again anyway, so yeah, talk to her for sure.
 
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Thanks for the advice gents. I've gotten over that chick now. Realised that she wasn't worth my time or energy anymore. :woo: Que "On to The Next One" by Jay-Z ft Swizz Beatz! *bopping my head* :rock:
 
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