“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Is this is a b**ch shield?

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Hi all. I'm new to posting in the discussion forum :wave:
Um, so here goes. I started talking to a girl who is a friend of a friend about a month or so ago. Did c&f, she was cool with me, always laughed and smiled at the stuff I said etc. Got her number without hassle as well.
A week after this, she didn't wanna talk to me, was giving me the cold shoulder, wouldn't warm up to my interactions. Confused, I decided to tell her how I feel and call her on her sudden change of behaviour (on facebook. I know, I know, but she didn't wanna talk to me or accept my calls). Next thing, she says I'm rude! What?! Most of my friends who I've spoken to about this say she's crazy and I should leave her alone. Would be easy if we weren't studying the same course (Information technology).
This week (three weeks after the incident), I wish to make right with this chick. Find out where I went wrong (if I did) and just find closure. Is this a good move? Should I just leave her alone?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Called her out on Facebook as in you made a public comment about it? God I hope not...
 
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*SPHECTACULAR* said:
I wish to make right with this chick. Find out where I went wrong (if I did) and just find closure. Is this a good move?
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No, it never is.

Unfortunately when you get to this point, moving forward and NEXT is the only option available.
 
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No, it never is.

Unfortunately when you get to this point, moving forward and NEXT is the only option available.
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^This. There is no closure. Just find your nearest exit and eject.

Being that she is probably is crazy, any attempt to make things right (despite your good intentions) will be seen (by her) as creepy, stalking, and harrassing.

Even if she isn't crazy, she will still likely view any attempt to make things right in a negative light as listed above.

Just let it go.

To answers your title question, no it's not a b*tch shield. B*tch shields are usually limited to when you first approach a girl (or group of girls) that you haven't met before.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No point leaving her alone you have NOTHING to lose. She's definitely crazy, I mean come on, a girl taking IT? Got to be a psycho lol!

You may as well just ask her why she suddenly went cold on you for no reason. Really what do you have to lose? If you just leave her alone you'll never hear from her again anyway, so yeah, talk to her for sure.
 
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Thanks for the advice gents. I've gotten over that chick now. Realised that she wasn't worth my time or energy anymore. :woo: Que "On to The Next One" by Jay-Z ft Swizz Beatz! *bopping my head* :rock:
 
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