Okay, so the girl of my dreams finally has started to hang out with me. We chilled a few weeks ago a few times but sicne hten we just chilled every once in a while. Then this weekend came and she was text messaging me like crazy, both firday and saturday. She met me at this party but she ended up leaving out before I got to talk to her for too long. Then on Saturday night, she started texting and calling again and i was liek alright lets chill and then finally I didn't make plans with her I kinda left her hanging...Is this good cause now she'll start beingliek who would he rather hang out with I gotta get him to hang with me. or is this a bad thing?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Is this good or bad?
- Thread starter toddC
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