Okay, so the girl of my dreams finally has started to hang out with me. We chilled a few weeks ago a few times but sicne hten we just chilled every once in a while. Then this weekend came and she was text messaging me like crazy, both firday and saturday. She met me at this party but she ended up leaving out before I got to talk to her for too long. Then on Saturday night, she started texting and calling again and i was liek alright lets chill and then finally I didn't make plans with her I kinda left her hanging...Is this good cause now she'll start beingliek who would he rather hang out with I gotta get him to hang with me. or is this a bad thing?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Is this good or bad?
- Thread starter toddC
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