"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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toddC

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Okay, so the girl of my dreams finally has started to hang out with me. We chilled a few weeks ago a few times but sicne hten we just chilled every once in a while. Then this weekend came and she was text messaging me like crazy, both firday and saturday. She met me at this party but she ended up leaving out before I got to talk to her for too long. Then on Saturday night, she started texting and calling again and i was liek alright lets chill and then finally I didn't make plans with her I kinda left her hanging...Is this good cause now she'll start beingliek who would he rather hang out with I gotta get him to hang with me. or is this a bad thing?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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immrtlwun

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It sounds like its going well. It's good that you aren't hanging out all the time, otherwise one of the two of you would get bored of the other. It's also good that you are showing her that you have other things going on in your life. Keep it up and keep her looking forward to hanging out with you.
 

toddC

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yea but i was mostly pointing out the part that i kinda ditched her last nite.
 

DJ4Real

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Being unavailable...and ditching someone are different.....if you plan on being unavailable, just tell her you have plans before hand...

I think it was a bad thing.
 
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