this is rare sitautation i go to a super small school. this really hot girl just came here and ive talked to her at school and she seems to be flirting a bit with me (and only me it appears) (in fact i havent even seen any other guys approach her in school in the past 3 days since she first came here). i fb messaged her last night and she hasnt replied to me back. (it says she hasnt been active in 12 hours and she told me she got her phone taken away). is she just leading me on/ bull****ting me or is this legit? btw she has a boyfriend but both him and her are younger than me (im junior she sophomore) please give me some advice? and also i know i have probably not been friendzoned cuz i've flirted with her a bunch and she a little back and im not a "mr nice guy" also if she does text me back how long should i wait to reply since its already been nearly 20 hours? anyway i really think i have a good shot of getting with this girl despite what she is doing/ is it worth going for it and asking her to hang out with me? what should i do now?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
is this girl leading me on?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
it's far too early to tell, and if you worry and overanalyze as much as you do here, you'll mess it up, so just relax, and don't overreact to anything minor
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Dude, You know that she's hot and she has all those powers to turn men on. and BTW, if she texts you back, don't take too long to text back, she might just loose interest and just go to sleep instead of texting you. also, I'm not saying that you should reply right away. you should totally ask her to hang out with you, and if she ditches you, it's time to stop.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.