this is rare sitautation i go to a super small school. this really hot girl just came here and ive talked to her at school and she seems to be flirting a bit with me (and only me it appears) (in fact i havent even seen any other guys approach her in school in the past 3 days since she first came here). i fb messaged her last night and she hasnt replied to me back. (it says she hasnt been active in 12 hours and she told me she got her phone taken away). is she just leading me on/ bull****ting me or is this legit? btw she has a boyfriend but both him and her are younger than me (im junior she sophomore) please give me some advice? and also i know i have probably not been friendzoned cuz i've flirted with her a bunch and she a little back and im not a "mr nice guy" also if she does text me back how long should i wait to reply since its already been nearly 20 hours? anyway i really think i have a good shot of getting with this girl despite what she is doing/ is it worth going for it and asking her to hang out with me? what should i do now?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
is this girl leading me on?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
it's far too early to tell, and if you worry and overanalyze as much as you do here, you'll mess it up, so just relax, and don't overreact to anything minor
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Dude, You know that she's hot and she has all those powers to turn men on. and BTW, if she texts you back, don't take too long to text back, she might just loose interest and just go to sleep instead of texting you. also, I'm not saying that you should reply right away. you should totally ask her to hang out with you, and if she ditches you, it's time to stop.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.