this is rare sitautation i go to a super small school. this really hot girl just came here and ive talked to her at school and she seems to be flirting a bit with me (and only me it appears) (in fact i havent even seen any other guys approach her in school in the past 3 days since she first came here). i fb messaged her last night and she hasnt replied to me back. (it says she hasnt been active in 12 hours and she told me she got her phone taken away). is she just leading me on/ bull****ting me or is this legit? btw she has a boyfriend but both him and her are younger than me (im junior she sophomore) please give me some advice? and also i know i have probably not been friendzoned cuz i've flirted with her a bunch and she a little back and im not a "mr nice guy" also if she does text me back how long should i wait to reply since its already been nearly 20 hours? anyway i really think i have a good shot of getting with this girl despite what she is doing/ is it worth going for it and asking her to hang out with me? what should i do now?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
is this girl leading me on?
- Thread starter gsj23421
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
devilkingx2
Master Don Juan
it's far too early to tell, and if you worry and overanalyze as much as you do here, you'll mess it up, so just relax, and don't overreact to anything minor
idoloveromance
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Dude, You know that she's hot and she has all those powers to turn men on. and BTW, if she texts you back, don't take too long to text back, she might just loose interest and just go to sleep instead of texting you. also, I'm not saying that you should reply right away. you should totally ask her to hang out with you, and if she ditches you, it's time to stop.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.