"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I invited her (via text, I really don't see her on a regular basis ) to something about week in advance and she said "I'll think about it". This would be our 3rd date.

I took that as a no, replied "hah ok whatever" and deleted her number. At this point I was ready to move on to someone else but then she texts me something, I ignore it and then she texts me again saying

"I didn't say no".

I'm confused, if she was not interested why did she say that?:confused:

Does she just want the attention?

She usually replies to texts slow if that means anything.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think she's sh*t testing you. Just be indifferent about it. Don't make her play games with you anymore. Let her know the deal.
 
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I should have mentioned this happened a few days ago.

I replied and basically played dumb.

I said "Didnt say no?" She said "i thought you were mad at me because I said I'd think about it." I played it cool and said that I wasnt and to just let me know. She said haha ok good.

That was two days ago. No contact since.

Should I just wait for her to text me back?
 
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It's all about attention , just see what she did when you ignored her ...she tried to get your attention again and yes that was a **** test and you did the right thing ....just be unpredictable and use you phone (texts or calls) just to set up dates ;; your communications should be 99% in person.
 
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Should I talk to her in person and not mention going out OR should I try to get her to go out in person? I feel that might be a little needy sounding it I try to ask her again.
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

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handsaresweaty9 said:
Should I talk to her in person and not mention going out OR should I try to get her to go out in person? I feel that might be a little needy sounding it I try to ask her again.
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you know that i know that you know that you want to go out with her....so do what you want to do , if you really like her and you want to ask her out just do it and let the ships fall were they may it , so if see her in person regularly ask her out or call her and ask her for a date and forget about that neediness and don't think too much about how she values you let her think about if she is worth your time or not (95% of thinking about a women is waste of your valuable time if you are not with her) so if she agrees to meet you good if she decline she is just another girl that you have erased from your list .
 
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