Is this girl interested?

[handsaresweaty9]

I invited her (via text, I really don't see her on a regular basis ) to something about week in advance and she said "I'll think about it". This would be our 3rd date.

I took that as a no, replied "hah ok whatever" and deleted her number. At this point I was ready to move on to someone else but then she texts me something, I ignore it and then she texts me again saying

"I didn't say no".

I'm confused, if she was not interested why did she say that?

Does she just want the attention?

She usually replies to texts slow if that means anything.

 

[SeymourCake]

I think she's sh*t testing you. Just be indifferent about it. Don't make her play games with you anymore. Let her know the deal.

 

[handsaresweaty9]

I should have mentioned this happened a few days ago.

I replied and basically played dumb.

I said "Didnt say no?" She said "i thought you were mad at me because I said I'd think about it." I played it cool and said that I wasnt and to just let me know. She said haha ok good.

That was two days ago. No contact since.

Should I just wait for her to text me back?

 

[om1xr]

It's all about attention , just see what she did when you ignored her ...she tried to get your attention again and yes that was a **** test and you did the right thing ....just be unpredictable and use you phone (texts or calls) just to set up dates ;; your communications should be 99% in person.

 

[handsaresweaty9]

Should I talk to her in person and not mention going out OR should I try to get her to go out in person? I feel that might be a little needy sounding it I try to ask her again.

 

[om1xr]

Should I talk to her in person and not mention going out OR should I try to get her to go out in person? I feel that might be a little needy sounding it I try to ask her again.

you know that i know that you know that you want to go out with her....so do what you want to do , if you really like her and you want to ask her out just do it and let the ships fall were they may it , so if see her in person regularly ask her out or call her and ask her for a date and forget about that neediness and don't think too much about how she values you let her think about if she is worth your time or not (95% of thinking about a women is waste of your valuable time if you are not with her) so if she agrees to meet you good if she decline she is just another girl that you have erased from your list .

 

[Ringleader41]

Tbh, usually if you have to question it than ur not.