"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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I invited her (via text, I really don't see her on a regular basis ) to something about week in advance and she said "I'll think about it". This would be our 3rd date.

I took that as a no, replied "hah ok whatever" and deleted her number. At this point I was ready to move on to someone else but then she texts me something, I ignore it and then she texts me again saying

"I didn't say no".

I'm confused, if she was not interested why did she say that?:confused:

Does she just want the attention?

She usually replies to texts slow if that means anything.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I think she's sh*t testing you. Just be indifferent about it. Don't make her play games with you anymore. Let her know the deal.
 
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I should have mentioned this happened a few days ago.

I replied and basically played dumb.

I said "Didnt say no?" She said "i thought you were mad at me because I said I'd think about it." I played it cool and said that I wasnt and to just let me know. She said haha ok good.

That was two days ago. No contact since.

Should I just wait for her to text me back?
 
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It's all about attention , just see what she did when you ignored her ...she tried to get your attention again and yes that was a **** test and you did the right thing ....just be unpredictable and use you phone (texts or calls) just to set up dates ;; your communications should be 99% in person.
 
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Should I talk to her in person and not mention going out OR should I try to get her to go out in person? I feel that might be a little needy sounding it I try to ask her again.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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handsaresweaty9 said:
Should I talk to her in person and not mention going out OR should I try to get her to go out in person? I feel that might be a little needy sounding it I try to ask her again.
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you know that i know that you know that you want to go out with her....so do what you want to do , if you really like her and you want to ask her out just do it and let the ships fall were they may it , so if see her in person regularly ask her out or call her and ask her for a date and forget about that neediness and don't think too much about how she values you let her think about if she is worth your time or not (95% of thinking about a women is waste of your valuable time if you are not with her) so if she agrees to meet you good if she decline she is just another girl that you have erased from your list .
 
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