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Bud_Fox
Guest
LTR = Long term relationship
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Is this forum more about getting pu$$y or is it about maintaining a LTR?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Anyone else seem to notice that the trolls get more active around the time that high schools have holiday breaks?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This forum is about becoming a better person and personal improvement.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
My opinion is this forum is mainly directed towards AFCs and "nice guys" to help them overcome their submissive, clingy, and so-called "beta" behaviors. It's also a place to learn perspectives about relationships and the reality of female psychology. In short, the reality is that women are emotionally driven. They feel their way through the world, and they are attracted to men who resonate and create emotion. This doesn't mean men who GET emotional, it means men who can express their emotions freely with CONTROL. This forum is also largely about being an individual, pushing social boundaries, and realizing their identity. Sosuave is ultimately about learning how to get your sh!t together, and this is only the beginning...
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i would sure hope so, that's why i do itPrettyBoyAJ said:
At the very least, this forum makes you aware, and thats a good thing.
It may not make you a dj, it may not turn you into a ladies man, but at the very least, anytime you are going through some adversity when it comes to women, this site will be talking to you and hopefully prevent you from making a complete mess out of everything,
digging yourself further into a hole of sh*t...
It gives you a slight edge.
It may not make you a dj, it may not turn you into a ladies man, but at the very least, anytime you are going through some adversity when it comes to women, this site will be talking to you and hopefully prevent you from making a complete mess out of everything,
digging yourself further into a hole of sh*t...
It gives you a slight edge.
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perseverance
Guest
This forum is about whatever you want it to be about. I use it as a guide towards self-improvement. I am not interested in becoming a PUA or a DJ, I am just interesting in becoming a better man, a better person.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
the mistake is thinking there is a difference.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
agreedbackbreaker said:
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.