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Bud_Fox
Guest
LTR = Long term relationship
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Is this forum more about getting pu$$y or is it about maintaining a LTR?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Anyone else seem to notice that the trolls get more active around the time that high schools have holiday breaks?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This forum is about becoming a better person and personal improvement.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
My opinion is this forum is mainly directed towards AFCs and "nice guys" to help them overcome their submissive, clingy, and so-called "beta" behaviors. It's also a place to learn perspectives about relationships and the reality of female psychology. In short, the reality is that women are emotionally driven. They feel their way through the world, and they are attracted to men who resonate and create emotion. This doesn't mean men who GET emotional, it means men who can express their emotions freely with CONTROL. This forum is also largely about being an individual, pushing social boundaries, and realizing their identity. Sosuave is ultimately about learning how to get your sh!t together, and this is only the beginning...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i would sure hope so, that's why i do itPrettyBoyAJ said:
At the very least, this forum makes you aware, and thats a good thing.
It may not make you a dj, it may not turn you into a ladies man, but at the very least, anytime you are going through some adversity when it comes to women, this site will be talking to you and hopefully prevent you from making a complete mess out of everything,
digging yourself further into a hole of sh*t...
It gives you a slight edge.
It may not make you a dj, it may not turn you into a ladies man, but at the very least, anytime you are going through some adversity when it comes to women, this site will be talking to you and hopefully prevent you from making a complete mess out of everything,
digging yourself further into a hole of sh*t...
It gives you a slight edge.
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perseverance
Guest
This forum is about whatever you want it to be about. I use it as a guide towards self-improvement. I am not interested in becoming a PUA or a DJ, I am just interesting in becoming a better man, a better person.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
the mistake is thinking there is a difference.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
agreedbackbreaker said:
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.