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Bud_Fox
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LTR = Long term relationship
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is this forum more about getting pu$$y or is it about maintaining a LTR?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Iceberg
Master Don Juan
Anyone else seem to notice that the trolls get more active around the time that high schools have holiday breaks?
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
This forum is about becoming a better person and personal improvement.
I'm in the Mood
Master Don Juan
My opinion is this forum is mainly directed towards AFCs and "nice guys" to help them overcome their submissive, clingy, and so-called "beta" behaviors. It's also a place to learn perspectives about relationships and the reality of female psychology. In short, the reality is that women are emotionally driven. They feel their way through the world, and they are attracted to men who resonate and create emotion. This doesn't mean men who GET emotional, it means men who can express their emotions freely with CONTROL. This forum is also largely about being an individual, pushing social boundaries, and realizing their identity. Sosuave is ultimately about learning how to get your sh!t together, and this is only the beginning...
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Packers2010
Master Don Juan
i would sure hope so, that's why i do itPrettyBoyAJ said:
At the very least, this forum makes you aware, and thats a good thing.
It may not make you a dj, it may not turn you into a ladies man, but at the very least, anytime you are going through some adversity when it comes to women, this site will be talking to you and hopefully prevent you from making a complete mess out of everything,
digging yourself further into a hole of sh*t...
It gives you a slight edge.
It may not make you a dj, it may not turn you into a ladies man, but at the very least, anytime you are going through some adversity when it comes to women, this site will be talking to you and hopefully prevent you from making a complete mess out of everything,
digging yourself further into a hole of sh*t...
It gives you a slight edge.
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perseverance
Guest
This forum is about whatever you want it to be about. I use it as a guide towards self-improvement. I am not interested in becoming a PUA or a DJ, I am just interesting in becoming a better man, a better person.
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
the mistake is thinking there is a difference.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
agreedbackbreaker said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.