"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this disrespect from my gf?

wonderer

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shes watching a show on tv and says that one of the people on it are hot on social media. Its pissed me off. Is this disrespecting me?

Ive withdrawn attention but she wont know what its about. I know if I bought it up she'd have something to say about me liking girls photos on instagram.

I'm thinking of maybe doing the same thing on social media in a few days and seeing how she likes it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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No.Danny

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....... how old are you? Acting like a kid who the **** cares
 

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No.Danny said:
....... how old are you? Acting like a kid who the **** cares
I agree.


Dude...SO WHAT if she said some guy ON TV was hot.....how is that disrespectful to YOU?

She's sleeping with you,ain't she?
She's YOUR girlfriend,ain't she?

What do you think she's gonna do,what....fly off to Hollywood,track the guy down and sleep with him?


Are you that weak and insecure that she can't even compliment someone on TV? And if that wasn't childish enough,you said you've withdrawn YOUR ATTENTION from her??? (WTF?)

So you're walking around....being cold,withholding affection,ignoring her,and giving her the silent treatment cause she said some dude on some tv show was hot.


Wow. Don't even know what to say about that sh1t. I would say you're acting like a 2-year old,but I've seen toddlers behave with more maturity. So she's gonna start to feel the coldness from you,and have absolutely NO IDEA why.....what happened......or what she's done.


Now I understand why your rep. dots are red.
 

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You're just being a really insecure hypocrite right now, man.

Just because she thinks another guy is hot doesn't mean that she doesn't like you a lot.

You probably think tons of women are hot too, but that doesn't mean that you don't like your girlfriend, right?

She's a woman and she's going to think other guys are attractive, just like you are a man and are going to find other women attractive.

My advice to you is to stop being insecure and go talk to other hot girls, get their numbers, and be a boss-player.
 

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1. You're no better yourself liking other girls.
2. You're jealous, nobody regardless of gender likes that.
3. You're passive aggressive, withdrawing attention because of being angry is the very definition of it.
4. Only you can truly state your boundaries, being confused by the hundreds of varied opinions of other will never help you.
5. You're planning revenge because you doubt where you've got her.

You've got 3 viable choices to resolve this.
1. Drop the issue (recommended, because you have no upper hand here)
2. Leave because you don't tolerate it, and because this relationship is obviously turning sour.
3. Get the balls to express what you think of it. Not recommended as you've already predicted how that's going to turn out. You will lose the discussion and come off as a jealous hypocritical controlling freak.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Grewd said:
1. You're no better yourself liking other girls.
2. You're jealous, nobody regardless of gender likes that.
3. You're passive aggressive, withdrawing attention because of being angry is the very definition of it.
4. Only you can truly state your boundaries, being confused by the hundreds of varied opinions of other will never help you.
5. You're planning revenge because you doubt where you've got her.

You've got 3 viable choices to resolve this.
1. Drop the issue (recommended, because you have no upper hand here)
2. Leave because you don't tolerate it, and because this relationship is obviously turning sour.
3. Get the balls to express what you think of it. Not recommended as you've already predicted how that's going to turn out. You will lose the discussion and come off as a jealous hypocritical controlling freak.
^ This.

Girls want you to be indifferent to things like that. Ever heard of a "test?"

You obviously failed big time.
 

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Yes, that is a HUGE amount of disrespect. She sounds like a hypergamic slvt ready to fvck any guy on the street. This is a massive sign of BPD, schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder. I suggest breaking up with her right now.
 

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El Payaso said:
Yes, that is a HUGE amount of disrespect. She sounds like a hypergamic slvt ready to fvck any guy on the street. This is a massive sign of BPD, schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder. I suggest breaking up with her right now.
That cracked me up, tell me you're joking right? It's just too exaggerated to be true xD
 

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Yea, she finds TV stars hot, worst kind of woman, she probably has some mental issues
 
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