Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Is this disrespect from my gf?

wonderer

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shes watching a show on tv and says that one of the people on it are hot on social media. Its pissed me off. Is this disrespecting me?

Ive withdrawn attention but she wont know what its about. I know if I bought it up she'd have something to say about me liking girls photos on instagram.

I'm thinking of maybe doing the same thing on social media in a few days and seeing how she likes it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No.Danny

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....... how old are you? Acting like a kid who the **** cares
 

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No.Danny said:
....... how old are you? Acting like a kid who the **** cares
I agree.


Dude...SO WHAT if she said some guy ON TV was hot.....how is that disrespectful to YOU?

She's sleeping with you,ain't she?
She's YOUR girlfriend,ain't she?

What do you think she's gonna do,what....fly off to Hollywood,track the guy down and sleep with him?


Are you that weak and insecure that she can't even compliment someone on TV? And if that wasn't childish enough,you said you've withdrawn YOUR ATTENTION from her??? (WTF?)

So you're walking around....being cold,withholding affection,ignoring her,and giving her the silent treatment cause she said some dude on some tv show was hot.


Wow. Don't even know what to say about that sh1t. I would say you're acting like a 2-year old,but I've seen toddlers behave with more maturity. So she's gonna start to feel the coldness from you,and have absolutely NO IDEA why.....what happened......or what she's done.


Now I understand why your rep. dots are red.
 

Sino Zane

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You're just being a really insecure hypocrite right now, man.

Just because she thinks another guy is hot doesn't mean that she doesn't like you a lot.

You probably think tons of women are hot too, but that doesn't mean that you don't like your girlfriend, right?

She's a woman and she's going to think other guys are attractive, just like you are a man and are going to find other women attractive.

My advice to you is to stop being insecure and go talk to other hot girls, get their numbers, and be a boss-player.
 

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1. You're no better yourself liking other girls.
2. You're jealous, nobody regardless of gender likes that.
3. You're passive aggressive, withdrawing attention because of being angry is the very definition of it.
4. Only you can truly state your boundaries, being confused by the hundreds of varied opinions of other will never help you.
5. You're planning revenge because you doubt where you've got her.

You've got 3 viable choices to resolve this.
1. Drop the issue (recommended, because you have no upper hand here)
2. Leave because you don't tolerate it, and because this relationship is obviously turning sour.
3. Get the balls to express what you think of it. Not recommended as you've already predicted how that's going to turn out. You will lose the discussion and come off as a jealous hypocritical controlling freak.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Beetlesales

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Grewd said:
1. You're no better yourself liking other girls.
2. You're jealous, nobody regardless of gender likes that.
3. You're passive aggressive, withdrawing attention because of being angry is the very definition of it.
4. Only you can truly state your boundaries, being confused by the hundreds of varied opinions of other will never help you.
5. You're planning revenge because you doubt where you've got her.

You've got 3 viable choices to resolve this.
1. Drop the issue (recommended, because you have no upper hand here)
2. Leave because you don't tolerate it, and because this relationship is obviously turning sour.
3. Get the balls to express what you think of it. Not recommended as you've already predicted how that's going to turn out. You will lose the discussion and come off as a jealous hypocritical controlling freak.
^ This.

Girls want you to be indifferent to things like that. Ever heard of a "test?"

You obviously failed big time.
 

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Yes, that is a HUGE amount of disrespect. She sounds like a hypergamic slvt ready to fvck any guy on the street. This is a massive sign of BPD, schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder. I suggest breaking up with her right now.
 

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El Payaso said:
Yes, that is a HUGE amount of disrespect. She sounds like a hypergamic slvt ready to fvck any guy on the street. This is a massive sign of BPD, schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder. I suggest breaking up with her right now.
That cracked me up, tell me you're joking right? It's just too exaggerated to be true xD
 

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Yea, she finds TV stars hot, worst kind of woman, she probably has some mental issues
 
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