"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Is this disrespect from my gf?

wonderer

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shes watching a show on tv and says that one of the people on it are hot on social media. Its pissed me off. Is this disrespecting me?

Ive withdrawn attention but she wont know what its about. I know if I bought it up she'd have something to say about me liking girls photos on instagram.

I'm thinking of maybe doing the same thing on social media in a few days and seeing how she likes it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No.Danny

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....... how old are you? Acting like a kid who the **** cares
 

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No.Danny said:
....... how old are you? Acting like a kid who the **** cares
I agree.


Dude...SO WHAT if she said some guy ON TV was hot.....how is that disrespectful to YOU?

She's sleeping with you,ain't she?
She's YOUR girlfriend,ain't she?

What do you think she's gonna do,what....fly off to Hollywood,track the guy down and sleep with him?


Are you that weak and insecure that she can't even compliment someone on TV? And if that wasn't childish enough,you said you've withdrawn YOUR ATTENTION from her??? (WTF?)

So you're walking around....being cold,withholding affection,ignoring her,and giving her the silent treatment cause she said some dude on some tv show was hot.


Wow. Don't even know what to say about that sh1t. I would say you're acting like a 2-year old,but I've seen toddlers behave with more maturity. So she's gonna start to feel the coldness from you,and have absolutely NO IDEA why.....what happened......or what she's done.


Now I understand why your rep. dots are red.
 

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You're just being a really insecure hypocrite right now, man.

Just because she thinks another guy is hot doesn't mean that she doesn't like you a lot.

You probably think tons of women are hot too, but that doesn't mean that you don't like your girlfriend, right?

She's a woman and she's going to think other guys are attractive, just like you are a man and are going to find other women attractive.

My advice to you is to stop being insecure and go talk to other hot girls, get their numbers, and be a boss-player.
 

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1. You're no better yourself liking other girls.
2. You're jealous, nobody regardless of gender likes that.
3. You're passive aggressive, withdrawing attention because of being angry is the very definition of it.
4. Only you can truly state your boundaries, being confused by the hundreds of varied opinions of other will never help you.
5. You're planning revenge because you doubt where you've got her.

You've got 3 viable choices to resolve this.
1. Drop the issue (recommended, because you have no upper hand here)
2. Leave because you don't tolerate it, and because this relationship is obviously turning sour.
3. Get the balls to express what you think of it. Not recommended as you've already predicted how that's going to turn out. You will lose the discussion and come off as a jealous hypocritical controlling freak.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Grewd said:
1. You're no better yourself liking other girls.
2. You're jealous, nobody regardless of gender likes that.
3. You're passive aggressive, withdrawing attention because of being angry is the very definition of it.
4. Only you can truly state your boundaries, being confused by the hundreds of varied opinions of other will never help you.
5. You're planning revenge because you doubt where you've got her.

You've got 3 viable choices to resolve this.
1. Drop the issue (recommended, because you have no upper hand here)
2. Leave because you don't tolerate it, and because this relationship is obviously turning sour.
3. Get the balls to express what you think of it. Not recommended as you've already predicted how that's going to turn out. You will lose the discussion and come off as a jealous hypocritical controlling freak.
^ This.

Girls want you to be indifferent to things like that. Ever heard of a "test?"

You obviously failed big time.
 

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Yes, that is a HUGE amount of disrespect. She sounds like a hypergamic slvt ready to fvck any guy on the street. This is a massive sign of BPD, schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder. I suggest breaking up with her right now.
 

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El Payaso said:
Yes, that is a HUGE amount of disrespect. She sounds like a hypergamic slvt ready to fvck any guy on the street. This is a massive sign of BPD, schizophrenia and multiple personality disorder. I suggest breaking up with her right now.
That cracked me up, tell me you're joking right? It's just too exaggerated to be true xD
 

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Yea, she finds TV stars hot, worst kind of woman, she probably has some mental issues
 
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