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Is this chick nervous or just plain boring?

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Yeah, well, here's how the story goes. I'm in 9th period Math class and this one hot blonde chick in my grade, comes in to talk to our teacher, who is also cheerleading coach. Then the chick comes over here and starts talking to me about the biology test(We're in the same biology class) and she just comes up to me and says "Oh, my god, that biology test, failed, just failed" and starts talking about how hard the test was. I'm thinking, "Okay... that's random, what does this chick want me to do symphasize for her or something?", it was really random. So how would you guys interpret this, what do you think the chick was trying to accomplish by doing that? Is she just weird or something or did she want my attention? I really need somebody to interpret this.
 

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No one knows. Chat her up then you can tell what it means.

P.S In what way is she nervous or boring? :confused:
 

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Originally posted by Bloke
No one knows. Chat her up then you can tell what it means.

P.S In what way is she nervous or boring? :confused:
Okay... that's why I asked you to INTERPRET, I don't expect you to ACTUALLY know what the real reason is, you're not psychic after all. How is she weird? Well come on, you have a brain, read the post over and think.
 

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Alright here are my possible readings from this.


1. You are a friend, she likes attention, and has no other guy to ***** at that will listen and guys feel better to ***** at than their girl friends.

2. If you haven't had much conversation with her, she has been noticing you in class and noticing that you are sexy, she wants your nuts and doesn't know how to go about it.
 

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Originally posted by Viper
Okay... that's why I asked you to INTERPRET, I don't expect you to ACTUALLY know what the real reason is, you're not psychic after all. How is she weird? Well come on, you have a brain, read the post over and think.
:( I never said weird. I asked how is she boring or nervous - like the thread title says.

But indeed, she may be a little 'eccentric'. She's prolly under stress & needs sex desperatly.
 

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
Alright here are my possible readings from this.


1. You are a friend, she likes attention, and has no other guy to ***** at that will listen and guys feel better to ***** at than their girl friends.

2. If you haven't had much conversation with her, she has been noticing you in class and noticing that you are sexy, she wants your nuts and doesn't know how to go about it.


that wasnt her being wierd she was goin for yea man. :cheer: as crazyasian biker said in #2



ps: you are an amazing turn around fom what you where :cheer: good luck man
 

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Originally posted by KaminoSS
that wasnt her being wierd she was goin for yea man. :cheer: as crazyasian biker said in #2



ps: you are an amazing turn around fom what you where :cheer: good luck man
That might be the case, but I don't think the chick was actually going for me. She didn't talk to me today after all.
 

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OR maybe she was just talking about how hard the biology test was....

Damn
 

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Originally posted by Holland
OR maybe she was just talking about how hard the biology test was....

Damn
In which case, she is indeed weird.
Why do I care that she failed, why do I care that the test was hard? Exactly. I'm not even real good friends with this girl.
 

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Your not even supose to be friends with her.. Dude.. The girl just started to talk to you .. So you should of took it as your Advantage by getting her number .. Duh..
 

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Originally posted by Phat
Your not even supose to be friends with her.. Dude.. The girl just started to talk to you .. So you should of took it as your Advantage by getting her number .. Duh..
Didn't even have time, plus that seems a little weird...
Girl: Like, oh my god, I so failed that biology test.
Me: Sweet, can I have your number?
Plus, I didn't really have time to get her number.
 
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