"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Is this chick nervous or just plain boring?

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Yeah, well, here's how the story goes. I'm in 9th period Math class and this one hot blonde chick in my grade, comes in to talk to our teacher, who is also cheerleading coach. Then the chick comes over here and starts talking to me about the biology test(We're in the same biology class) and she just comes up to me and says "Oh, my god, that biology test, failed, just failed" and starts talking about how hard the test was. I'm thinking, "Okay... that's random, what does this chick want me to do symphasize for her or something?", it was really random. So how would you guys interpret this, what do you think the chick was trying to accomplish by doing that? Is she just weird or something or did she want my attention? I really need somebody to interpret this.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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No one knows. Chat her up then you can tell what it means.

P.S In what way is she nervous or boring? :confused:
 
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Originally posted by Bloke
No one knows. Chat her up then you can tell what it means.

P.S In what way is she nervous or boring? :confused:
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Okay... that's why I asked you to INTERPRET, I don't expect you to ACTUALLY know what the real reason is, you're not psychic after all. How is she weird? Well come on, you have a brain, read the post over and think.
 
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Alright here are my possible readings from this.


1. You are a friend, she likes attention, and has no other guy to ***** at that will listen and guys feel better to ***** at than their girl friends.

2. If you haven't had much conversation with her, she has been noticing you in class and noticing that you are sexy, she wants your nuts and doesn't know how to go about it.
 
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Originally posted by Viper
Okay... that's why I asked you to INTERPRET, I don't expect you to ACTUALLY know what the real reason is, you're not psychic after all. How is she weird? Well come on, you have a brain, read the post over and think.
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:( I never said weird. I asked how is she boring or nervous - like the thread title says.

But indeed, she may be a little 'eccentric'. She's prolly under stress & needs sex desperatly.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
Alright here are my possible readings from this.


1. You are a friend, she likes attention, and has no other guy to ***** at that will listen and guys feel better to ***** at than their girl friends.

2. If you haven't had much conversation with her, she has been noticing you in class and noticing that you are sexy, she wants your nuts and doesn't know how to go about it.
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that wasnt her being wierd she was goin for yea man. :cheer: as crazyasian biker said in #2



ps: you are an amazing turn around fom what you where :cheer: good luck man
 
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Originally posted by KaminoSS
that wasnt her being wierd she was goin for yea man. :cheer: as crazyasian biker said in #2



ps: you are an amazing turn around fom what you where :cheer: good luck man
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That might be the case, but I don't think the chick was actually going for me. She didn't talk to me today after all.
 
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OR maybe she was just talking about how hard the biology test was....

Damn
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Holland
OR maybe she was just talking about how hard the biology test was....

Damn
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In which case, she is indeed weird.
Why do I care that she failed, why do I care that the test was hard? Exactly. I'm not even real good friends with this girl.
 
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Your not even supose to be friends with her.. Dude.. The girl just started to talk to you .. So you should of took it as your Advantage by getting her number .. Duh..
 
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Your not even supose to be friends with her.. Dude.. The girl just started to talk to you .. So you should of took it as your Advantage by getting her number .. Duh..
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Didn't even have time, plus that seems a little weird...
Girl: Like, oh my god, I so failed that biology test.
Me: Sweet, can I have your number?
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Plus, I didn't really have time to get her number.
 
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