"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this chick nervous or just plain boring?

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Yeah, well, here's how the story goes. I'm in 9th period Math class and this one hot blonde chick in my grade, comes in to talk to our teacher, who is also cheerleading coach. Then the chick comes over here and starts talking to me about the biology test(We're in the same biology class) and she just comes up to me and says "Oh, my god, that biology test, failed, just failed" and starts talking about how hard the test was. I'm thinking, "Okay... that's random, what does this chick want me to do symphasize for her or something?", it was really random. So how would you guys interpret this, what do you think the chick was trying to accomplish by doing that? Is she just weird or something or did she want my attention? I really need somebody to interpret this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No one knows. Chat her up then you can tell what it means.

P.S In what way is she nervous or boring? :confused:
 
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No one knows. Chat her up then you can tell what it means.

P.S In what way is she nervous or boring? :confused:
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Okay... that's why I asked you to INTERPRET, I don't expect you to ACTUALLY know what the real reason is, you're not psychic after all. How is she weird? Well come on, you have a brain, read the post over and think.
 
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Alright here are my possible readings from this.


1. You are a friend, she likes attention, and has no other guy to ***** at that will listen and guys feel better to ***** at than their girl friends.

2. If you haven't had much conversation with her, she has been noticing you in class and noticing that you are sexy, she wants your nuts and doesn't know how to go about it.
 
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Originally posted by Viper
Okay... that's why I asked you to INTERPRET, I don't expect you to ACTUALLY know what the real reason is, you're not psychic after all. How is she weird? Well come on, you have a brain, read the post over and think.
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:( I never said weird. I asked how is she boring or nervous - like the thread title says.

But indeed, she may be a little 'eccentric'. She's prolly under stress & needs sex desperatly.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by CrazyAsianBiker
Alright here are my possible readings from this.


1. You are a friend, she likes attention, and has no other guy to ***** at that will listen and guys feel better to ***** at than their girl friends.

2. If you haven't had much conversation with her, she has been noticing you in class and noticing that you are sexy, she wants your nuts and doesn't know how to go about it.
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that wasnt her being wierd she was goin for yea man. :cheer: as crazyasian biker said in #2



ps: you are an amazing turn around fom what you where :cheer: good luck man
 
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Originally posted by KaminoSS
that wasnt her being wierd she was goin for yea man. :cheer: as crazyasian biker said in #2



ps: you are an amazing turn around fom what you where :cheer: good luck man
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That might be the case, but I don't think the chick was actually going for me. She didn't talk to me today after all.
 
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OR maybe she was just talking about how hard the biology test was....

Damn
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Holland
OR maybe she was just talking about how hard the biology test was....

Damn
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In which case, she is indeed weird.
Why do I care that she failed, why do I care that the test was hard? Exactly. I'm not even real good friends with this girl.
 
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Your not even supose to be friends with her.. Dude.. The girl just started to talk to you .. So you should of took it as your Advantage by getting her number .. Duh..
 
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Your not even supose to be friends with her.. Dude.. The girl just started to talk to you .. So you should of took it as your Advantage by getting her number .. Duh..
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Didn't even have time, plus that seems a little weird...
Girl: Like, oh my god, I so failed that biology test.
Me: Sweet, can I have your number?
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Plus, I didn't really have time to get her number.
 
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