"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is this behaviour lack of respect?

sosumba

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?


A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EyeOnThePrize

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It depends entirely on the question and context.

If she's asking a second time if she can give me a massage I would playfully decline if I'm busy. She gets points for this(usually).

If she's asking me for money a second time I'd tell her to leave. She loses many points for this.

Give a more specific example and you'll get a much more appropriate answer.
 

Bigpapa

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
most likely you are not congruent and thinks that you are not sincere or that you are hiding something

and because you get angry , I would say that she right
 

bat soup

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
If the question is "why are you so sexy?" I wouldn't take it as disrespect.
 

Lookatu

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Is she a lawyer or work in law enforcement?

How long have you been going out with her?

You need to put a stop to that ASAP. It will only get worse.

Use whatever method you think based on her personality.

No one size fits all but you need to call her out on it right away.

There clearly seems to be some trust issues going on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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