"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Is this behaviour lack of respect?

sosumba

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?


A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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EyeOnThePrize

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It depends entirely on the question and context.

If she's asking a second time if she can give me a massage I would playfully decline if I'm busy. She gets points for this(usually).

If she's asking me for money a second time I'd tell her to leave. She loses many points for this.

Give a more specific example and you'll get a much more appropriate answer.
 

Bigpapa

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
most likely you are not congruent and thinks that you are not sincere or that you are hiding something

and because you get angry , I would say that she right
 

bat soup

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
If the question is "why are you so sexy?" I wouldn't take it as disrespect.
 

Lookatu

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Is she a lawyer or work in law enforcement?

How long have you been going out with her?

You need to put a stop to that ASAP. It will only get worse.

Use whatever method you think based on her personality.

No one size fits all but you need to call her out on it right away.

There clearly seems to be some trust issues going on.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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