"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Is this behaviour lack of respect?

sosumba

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?


A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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EyeOnThePrize

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It depends entirely on the question and context.

If she's asking a second time if she can give me a massage I would playfully decline if I'm busy. She gets points for this(usually).

If she's asking me for money a second time I'd tell her to leave. She loses many points for this.

Give a more specific example and you'll get a much more appropriate answer.
 

Bigpapa

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
most likely you are not congruent and thinks that you are not sincere or that you are hiding something

and because you get angry , I would say that she right
 

bat soup

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
If the question is "why are you so sexy?" I wouldn't take it as disrespect.
 

Lookatu

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Is she a lawyer or work in law enforcement?

How long have you been going out with her?

You need to put a stop to that ASAP. It will only get worse.

Use whatever method you think based on her personality.

No one size fits all but you need to call her out on it right away.

There clearly seems to be some trust issues going on.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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