"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Is this behaviour lack of respect?

sosumba

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?


A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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EyeOnThePrize

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It depends entirely on the question and context.

If she's asking a second time if she can give me a massage I would playfully decline if I'm busy. She gets points for this(usually).

If she's asking me for money a second time I'd tell her to leave. She loses many points for this.

Give a more specific example and you'll get a much more appropriate answer.
 

Bigpapa

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
most likely you are not congruent and thinks that you are not sincere or that you are hiding something

and because you get angry , I would say that she right
 

bat soup

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A woman asks you a question and you answer it but the woman asks the same question again a day or so later. What the fcvk? This has happened to me with several women. I think they hope to hear another answer but this makes me a bit angry as I hate being asked the same question several times.

How would you handle this?

A: Give her the same answer.
B: Tell her to stop asking the same quesiton.
C: Tell her she is not going to get a different answer today.
D: Tell her she asked this question before
E: Tell her she has memory issues (playfully).
F: ?
If the question is "why are you so sexy?" I wouldn't take it as disrespect.
 

Lookatu

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Is she a lawyer or work in law enforcement?

How long have you been going out with her?

You need to put a stop to that ASAP. It will only get worse.

Use whatever method you think based on her personality.

No one size fits all but you need to call her out on it right away.

There clearly seems to be some trust issues going on.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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