"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Is this an okay lunch health wise?

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I made 3 slices of bacon, 3 whole eggs, toasted 2 pieces of wheat bread some tomato slices and a handful of spinich leaves and made a sandwich. I also had a glass of orange juice and a banana. I know the spinach, tomatos, wheat bread and banana is good, but is it too fatty with the bacon and eggs(as well as the butter I used to cook the scrambled eggs)?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Change the white bread for wholegrain brown bread and water instead of orange juice
 

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JayCee23 said:
Change the white bread for wholegrain brown bread and water instead of orange juice
Meant to say wheat bread, don't know how I wrote white.

Warboss said:
as a one-off meal or something you'd have every day?
I usually eat turkey sandwiches for lunch but eat them so much I was getting tired of them so I switched it up. So I'd probably alternate and have that a few days a week, turkey the other days.
 

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it sounds fine either way. of course there's a whole lot more to a diet than a single meal, especially when which you only have it semi-regularly.

thing with orange juice is that you can rack up a lot of sugars with it quickly. but again - that's isolating one food choice, in the context of the overall diet it could be absolutely fine.

simple rule: if you look or feel like sh!t after eating something, stop eating it. if you look and feel good, chow down. :D
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Warboss Alex said:
simple rule: if you look or feel like sh!t after eating something, stop eating it. if you look and feel good, chow down. :D
What's weird is my stomach feels funny after I eat at McDonald's, I rarely go there, maybe once a year. Yet if I eat at a different burger joint like Inn-n-Out here in California, I feel just fine after.
 
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