"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Is this an AFC move?

MR MIZUN0

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Well today while out to eat with my mother and her friend, we get seated at a table, and this HB waitress was serving every table around ours, but we ended up with some random waiter. Well long story short, the place really thinned out and with the football game on, two of the waiters just sit at the bar and watch the game (Jets, Chargers) while this HB is doing work cleaning tables, and prepping them. So while thinking I was debating on going over to her and saying this: hey, it looks like you work hard for tips, but i work even harder for cute chicks like yourself, cause it seems like your co-workers dont, can i give you a hand cleaning those tables?

Would that be considered an AFC move, or something a DJ would pull....I am very inexperienced with the whole DJ thing so just wondering.

I never said the line to her, cause I was with my mother (that would have been very akward, especially cause her friend was there, well a family friend)
 

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MR MIZUN0 said:
Well today while out to eat with my mother and her friend, we get seated at a table, and this HB waitress was serving every table around ours, but we ended up with some random waiter. Well long story short, the place really thinned out and with the football game on, two of the waiters just sit at the bar and watch the game (Jets, Chargers) while this HB is doing work cleaning tables, and prepping them. So while thinking I was debating on going over to her and saying this: hey, it looks like you work hard for tips, but i work even harder for cute chicks like yourself, cause it seems like your co-workers dont, can i give you a hand cleaning those tables?

Would that be considered an AFC move, or something a DJ would pull....I am very inexperienced with the whole DJ thing so just wondering.

I never said the line to her, cause I was with my mother (that would have been very akward, especially cause her friend was there, well a family friend)
Yeah that would be kind of weird to say and sound kind of afcish. How about something like say Hi to her *then look at her co-workers then back at her* "Damn sweetie are your co-workers always this lazy" *she laughs* then you introduce yourself yadda yadda yadda and try to pull the number:)
 

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Yea, I could see Mystery doing that.
*sigh*
Rule #1 Be the prize.
You create attraction with an interesting conversation, confidence, high value, etc, while teasing her and acting aloof.

Please read the Dj Bible, its an easy read.
 

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After re-reading this, I just cant believe I didn't act on the golden opportunity that was right in front of me....I need to grow a pair, and just go big or go home. Any advice on how to just shoot for the stars?
 

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MR MIZUN0 said:
After re-reading this, I just cant believe I didn't act on the golden opportunity that was right in front of me....I need to grow a pair, and just go big or go home. Any advice on how to just shoot for the stars?
Whatever you do, DON'T USE THAT LINE in your original post.

Read the DJ bible.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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