"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Is this an AFC move?

MR MIZUN0

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Well today while out to eat with my mother and her friend, we get seated at a table, and this HB waitress was serving every table around ours, but we ended up with some random waiter. Well long story short, the place really thinned out and with the football game on, two of the waiters just sit at the bar and watch the game (Jets, Chargers) while this HB is doing work cleaning tables, and prepping them. So while thinking I was debating on going over to her and saying this: hey, it looks like you work hard for tips, but i work even harder for cute chicks like yourself, cause it seems like your co-workers dont, can i give you a hand cleaning those tables?

Would that be considered an AFC move, or something a DJ would pull....I am very inexperienced with the whole DJ thing so just wondering.

I never said the line to her, cause I was with my mother (that would have been very akward, especially cause her friend was there, well a family friend)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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MR MIZUN0 said:
Well today while out to eat with my mother and her friend, we get seated at a table, and this HB waitress was serving every table around ours, but we ended up with some random waiter. Well long story short, the place really thinned out and with the football game on, two of the waiters just sit at the bar and watch the game (Jets, Chargers) while this HB is doing work cleaning tables, and prepping them. So while thinking I was debating on going over to her and saying this: hey, it looks like you work hard for tips, but i work even harder for cute chicks like yourself, cause it seems like your co-workers dont, can i give you a hand cleaning those tables?

Would that be considered an AFC move, or something a DJ would pull....I am very inexperienced with the whole DJ thing so just wondering.

I never said the line to her, cause I was with my mother (that would have been very akward, especially cause her friend was there, well a family friend)
Yeah that would be kind of weird to say and sound kind of afcish. How about something like say Hi to her *then look at her co-workers then back at her* "Damn sweetie are your co-workers always this lazy" *she laughs* then you introduce yourself yadda yadda yadda and try to pull the number:)
 

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Yea, I could see Mystery doing that.
*sigh*
Rule #1 Be the prize.
You create attraction with an interesting conversation, confidence, high value, etc, while teasing her and acting aloof.

Please read the Dj Bible, its an easy read.
 

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After re-reading this, I just cant believe I didn't act on the golden opportunity that was right in front of me....I need to grow a pair, and just go big or go home. Any advice on how to just shoot for the stars?
 

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MR MIZUN0 said:
After re-reading this, I just cant believe I didn't act on the golden opportunity that was right in front of me....I need to grow a pair, and just go big or go home. Any advice on how to just shoot for the stars?
Whatever you do, DON'T USE THAT LINE in your original post.

Read the DJ bible.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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